Showing posts with label Melissa Ann Shaw Wardle. Show all posts
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Monday, April 19, 2021

The Life Story of Melissa Audrey Wardle Chase Chapter 1 part 2: Family life, dolls, sheepherding,

Chapter 1 Chapter 1 B  Chapter 2. Chapter 3 Chapter 4A Chapter 4b  Chapter 5  Chapter 6  Chapter 7  Chapter 8.    Chapter 9. Chapter 10

We spent lots of time in the hills. Papa would go to get wood or logs for building. The trips were always work trips. We went in a big wooden wagon, whose wagon box had been built by Papa. The whole family would go. If it was a trip for a day to pick huckleberries, choke cherries or service berries we didn't take too much with us, just quilts, hay, water and a lunch. The lunch usually consisted of fried chicken, bread and butter, potato salad, garden vegetables and a cake or cookies. If we were picking huckleberries we took along cream and sugar so we could have huckleberries for dessert. We children sat on the quilts spread over the hay which the horses would eat at noon. Papa usually had a spring seat for him and Mama. While Papa worked, the rest of us would spread over the hillside picking berries, eating them and laughing and talking with each other. If we stayed overnight, we'd take more food and enough camp quilts to sleep in. Mama would have made these quilts from old scraps of denim and wool. We'd cook over a campfire and then sit around it talking, telling stories and singing, with the horses tied to the wagon box chomping their hay. When we went to bed we'd snuggle between several quilts and get close to each other. The mountain nights were always cold. We'd lie and listen to the wind in the pines and quaking asps, and look up at the brilliant stars and the moon. We'd whisper until we fell asleep. In the morning, we'd roll up quilts, pile them in the wagon and go wash in some icy stream. Breakfast would again be cooked over the campfire; hotcakes or bacon and eggs, or both, with cocoa to warm us up. Then back to the berry bushes again. If papa had come for wood, he'd pack the wagon full. chain the logs on and let us perch high on the load for our return trip. We'd all get home tired and dirty. My brother, my sisters and I all love the mountains. It must be because we have spent so many fun times there. Even today, I'd rather take a sleeping bag, go up in the hills and camp out than anything I know. We'd sometimes go to the hills with our relatives and that would be even more fun because even more kids would be there. On the 4th or 24th of July the church or town would often have a celebration in the mountains, usually in Teton Canyon. Our mothers would bake and cook the day before. Then, on the day, we'd dress as for Sunday, get in our wagons and head for the canyon. There we'd spend the day. Long ropes would be hung from the trees to make swings. There would be speeches and sometimes a band. All day long there would be all kinds of contests and races for everyone. There would be an enormous dinner around noon with everyone offering their best food. It would be laid out on long make shift tables with make shift benches running down both sides. Everyone liked to eat the specialties of other people. There was always lots of home-made ice cream and wash tubs filled with ice and watermelons. About sunset all the wagons would load up and head for home. Sometimes the celebrations would be held in Driggs with a parade ending at the town square across from the Stake House. When I was about eleven years old, President Heber J. Grant came to Driggs for stake conference. I got to listen to him, be near him, shake his hand and have him talk to me. Meeting this prophet of God made a lasting impression on me. At about this time two brothers and their families moved to town. One, named J. Leo Paul, became my Sunday school teacher. He had a contest for our class. There would be prize for the person who wrote the best composition on "Why I Believe the Book of Mormon to be true." I won. The prize was a leather-bound copy of the Book of Mormon with my name engraved in gold. It was by far the most beautiful book I had ever owned. I still treasure and use it. We went to Saturday afternoon movies. They were looked forward to all week long. We usually had a dime to get into the movie and a nickel for candy. You could get a sack of candy for a nickel. The movies were silent, with words appearing at the bottom of the screen. I remember seeing Douglas Fairbanks, Mary Pickford and Charlie Chaplin. I saw the movie Ramona there in the old Driggs theater. There was always a news reel and a short or two. There was always a serial, a continued story. Only a little was shown each week. It always ended in a situation from which no one could escape and then we had to wait until the next week to see how it turned out. Someone played the piano during the movie to provide "mood" music. Christmases during my childhood were wonderful! We'd get a tree from the nearby hills, erect it in the front room and cover the stand with a dish towel or sheet. For decorations we would pop popcorn and string it, string cranberries, make colorful chains of paper and make ornaments from anything available. We would also have some tinsel and a few "boughten" balls. We clipped little candles on the tree and carefully lit them. We made many of our gifts, but the girls aways had a "boughten" doll and Wilford something comparable. We'd have clothes, ribbons and treats. Mama had always sewed something special for each of us. And each us always got a book. In fact, each of us always got a book for his birthday as well. No matter how short of money my parents were, they always found a little for books. Melissa and Wilford both loved to read and so do all of their children. We used to pick peas in the winter and spuds in the fall to buy our school clothes. School was dismissed for two or three weeks in the fall and kids could stay out longer if the wanted to. Verla Byrne and I usually picked spuds together. One fall when I was in about the seventh grade, an older boy had an old car. He would load it down with kids and we would head for the spud fields. We took our lunches and stayed a long day. We would pick for one farmer and then move on to the next one. That year I earned all my school clothes. They included a rust colored coat with yellow sheep fur around the neck and cuffs. I ordered it from the catalog. Most of the clothes we bought were ordered from a catalog. What fun hours we spent with the "wish book." After they were old we cut them up for dolls and to use in doll houses. Last of all, they were used to clean the coal oil lamp chimneys and for toilet paper. We moved into one house where someone had left an old bookcase. Mama gave it to Lula and me to use for a doll house. It had five shelves. The top shelf had a mirror inset in the back and a lot of ornate carving around it. We used this shelf for a bedroom with a dressing table below the mirror. We had a tester bed, tables, overstuffed chairs and everything imaginable. We decorated the entire house like a Civil War mansion. We built a kitchen on the bottom shelf, then a dining room, a living room and a library. We papered the walls with samples from catalogs. We made rugs and curtains. Mama had many scraps and she let us use what we wanted. We used match boxes, all sizes of spools, pieces of wood, tin boxes, anything. It was beautiful. We had little celluloid dolls about six inches high whose heads, arms and legs would move. We made elaborate costumes for our dolls, even parasols. We spent endless hours playing with our house and dolls, but the most fun of all was the building and decorating. The summer that I was twelve my father went to Rockland to work in the harvest. My Wardle grandparents lived there. Papa took Lula and me to their home and left us for a two week visit. We went down in an old touring car. Mama had made us identical cotton dresses with white ruffles around the sleeves and pockets. Grandma was so good to us. She made big sheet cakes and many other good things. Orrin had a lot of little trucks. The three of us spent lots of time playing with them, building roads, farms etc. Grandma had a lot of old clothes she let us use for dressing up. It was a fun time. I had some wonderful teachers in Driggs School and other schools I attended. When I was in the eighth grade my teacher was Frank Knight. He was also the principle of the school. I respected and liked him and learned a great deal from him. During the year my father decided to go from Driggs to Salt Lake where he could get a job in a body and fender shop. So I didn't get to finish the year and graduate with my eighth grade class. My father really wanted all his life to live in Jackson Hole. My mother refused to move there because she didn't think it was a fit place to raise a family. Perhaps that was why Papa was always moving. The next place always looked better. In my first nine years of school I attended eleven schools. I can't see that it hurt me academically, perhaps because I could read well and I'd try hard. I'd always hate to leave my friends. But at least, I made lots of friends and learned to adapt easily to new situations. My poor mother didn't have it so easy. The houses into which we moved were usually little two-room houses with no water or bathroom. Often they were infested with bed bugs. I have seen her work and clean, putting kerosene to kill the bugs into every crack, to make the places habitable. She'd just get it cleaned, make it comfortable, live in it a few months or a year and then have to move and start all over again. My parents loved each other, but there was always lots of jangling between them. They did their jobs as mother, father, husband and wife well, but they jangled a lot. I don't remember this so much in my younger years as I did after I was about twelve. When we moved to Salt Lake we had a nice four-room house with water and a bathroom. The school said I'd have to go to seventh grade. I guess they thought Driggs would have been a poor school. But in the tests they gave me I ranked near the top of their eighth grade so they let me finish the eighth grade. We stayed in Salt Lake that summer of 1929. Verna, my last sister was born there. During the Summer I sold cakes and rolls. Every morning, except Sunday, I met a truck where I filled with goodies the basket that had been issued to me by a bakery. I had a route which I followed until my goods were sold. I received a percentage of the sales. It was rather fun. I had a second cousin, Everett Peterson, who was about my age, who lived nearby and we attended the same school and church. We had fun together. We went to Saltair several times. We would ride little open-sided cars ut to the pavilion. Then we'd spend the day riding a little and watching a lot. One time Everett found $12 an he and I used up every cent of it. What a day! We had a ninth grade graduation exercise when our school ended. Mama bought new cloth and made me a beautiful peach colored dress. As I remember, this period was about our only affluent time. About the time school ended Papa lost his job. The depression was here with a vengeance. We were forced to move back to Victor and another little two-room house. These little homes always became warm, clean loving homes. The only job my father could get was on herding sheep. Lula and I went with him as camp tenders. We herded sheep on the south side of Teton Pass, a little south and a long ways west up into the high mountains. Mama was left in Victor with three little children. At the camp we lived in a tent. We Dug a little trench on the high side of the hill so the rain water would be carried off. However, we had sudden, frequent thunder showers which nearly swept us away. We would place bedding and supplies high as possible on up-ended boxes. We too would perch on boxes as the rain ran in a stream through our tent. This was a wonderful time. Lula and I took care of the camp and did the cooking. I was 14 and she 12. I rode an old mule named Jenny, Lula rode a big old horse, and Papa had a good horse. We rode all over the mountains. Whenever Jenny got tired she headed for camp. I could not stop her. We had a couple dogs to help with the sheep. We had been there half the summer when Papa became very ill. It looked as if he'd die if he didn't get help. Someone brought us supplies about every two weeks, but they had just been there when Papa got sick. I had to go for help. I rode Lula's old horse, starting early in the morning. I had to find my way down out of the mountains, then north to Teton Pass, over the pass and finally home to Victor. I was a small girl, rather thin and frail looking, with two long long blonde braids. I looked very young. My biggest problem during the day was the cars I met. They all stopped me and wanted to know what such a little girl was doing up on the pass all alone. When I reached home it was long past dark. I must have been on the road about nineteen hours. I called to my mother who came out and helped me off the horse. I could not move then and could scarcely move for the next couple days. Someone went off for my father and got him out to a doctor. He got better, but our sheep-herding was over. When it got time for school to start, we moved to Lincoln, east of Idaho Falls. Papa worked in the sugar factory. We lived in another little two-room house with no water, on the edge of Lincoln in what is called "Doll Town." I started school as a junior at Ammon High School. I had taken all the classes I needed to enter as a junior except algebra. The principal, Mr. Magleby, could so no reason to keep me back a year for one class so he taught me algebra in his spare time. Once a week I went to him. He checked my week's work and gave me another's week's assignments. At 14 and 15, I was rather young to be a junior. All the other students were from 17 to 21. I did alright in my classes, but I was really too young to be in the class I was in. Lula started the seventh grade in Lincoln School. The fact that I had started school at five and she at nearly seven and that I had skipped by sophomore year of high school put us four years apart in school. It was hard for her. I loved my two years at Ammon High. It was by this time that I had been in eleven schools in nine years. I entered Ammon High School in the fall of 1930 when I was 14 years old and graduated in the spring of 1932 when I was 16. It was the longest time I had been in one school and how lucky it was that those two years were my high school years. I had wonderful teachers. Archie Williams, a young unmarried man, taught all the English classes. He instilled in me a life-time love of literature. He was small and wore glasses. He gave me a good foundation in grammar. He had me learn "The Highwayman" by Alfred Noyes, a poem I've never forgotten. He directed our plays. Even today I think of him with gratitude and affection. He opened my eyes to many new ideas and different kinds of literature. Floyd Anderson taught all science classes. He was a tall blonde jock type. All the girls were crazy about him. He had a lovely wife and several little boys. During my senior year he was killed. He fell on a harrow which had been left upside down in his back yard and the teeth pierced his body. It was a tragedy for all of us. The third teacher who influenced me was a young lady whose name I have forgotten. She had black hair, worn in rather a mannish cut-quite different in those days of long hair! She taught business classes. I took both typing and shorthand from her. She taught me a never forgotten lesson. One day we were to have a shorthand test. I studied hard for all my classes and got good grades. This time I had not studied so I decided to cheat. I made notes on some small pieces of paper and kept them in my palm. I used them. When I got my test back it had been fold lengthwise and had a big "A" on the front. when I looked inside, down on the bottom, she had written, "Audrey, this is a good paper, but I think you could do just as well without the notes." I nearly died because I adored her. I never mentioned it to her, nor she to me, but it was my first and last time of cheating. In my own teaching, I have used this technique I learned from her. We moved into a larger, four-room house with water and a bathroom. We would sit around the kitchen table, after supper, and read or study. I had a real problem with Papa. He especially loved to read history. As soon as we sat down, he took my book to look at for a minute. Sometimes I never got it back! There was so much to do at school. Our student body numbered only about 130 so everyone knew everyone else well. We did everything together. We put on plays and operettas. We had debates and speeches. We had sports. I was running center on the girls basketball team. I was little and quick. When I graduated from high school I was 4'10" tall, but I had started to get little plump. When our boys' ball teams played another school all travelled in the bus to support them. We had a bobcat for a mascot. We kept him in a cage in the furnace room. When we travelled to a game we took him in a carrying case. Whoever sat above his cage always got their legs scratched. Our bus was driven by a man named Oscar. He was tall and fun. He took us to games too. In the winter time the school bus was a sled because the roads were impassible. Weather was much more severe then. There was so much snow! I remember climbing to the top of the snow thrown up at the side of the road by the snow plow and being able to reach higher than the telephone wires. Ivy Field was my best friend. I often stayed overnight with her. Her father was a very prosperous farmer. This was really the depth of the depression. My parents were so poor I don't know how we survived. What my parents must have gone through! Papa would work the sugar beet run and then do what odd jobs he could. The two summers we were in Lincoln he contracted to thin and hoe huge fields of beets for different farmers. I worked side by side with him, all day, every day but Sunday. Lula helped too and my mother walked to the field and worked when her housework was done. Lots of times we'd take home the beets we had pulled up on our thinning and have them for supper, with gravy over bread and fruit Mama had canned. We had a cow. In the winter, Lula and I pulled a wagon up to the beet dump and brought home a wagon-load of pulp for food for the cow. It smelled terrible and made the milk taste like beet-pulp. One time we had no flour and no money to buy any. I know my parents were frantic. As we sat around our kitchen table after supper there was a knock on our back door. When we answered it, there in our little lean-to porch, was a 50 lb. sack of flour. We never knew who brought it, but suspected a dear old couple who lived in "doll town." But what a heaven-sent gift! Mother still made over old clothes for us, but we always looked good. I worked in the fields at harvest time picking spuds and topping beets to earn money for school clothes. I earned my class ring this way. I think it cost $7.50. If we went anywhere we walked. We walked all the time to Idaho Falls and back. In the winters, my legs above my stockings were frost-bitten most of the time. Girls couldn't wear pants. In the summer time, there were dances at different churches and two big dance halls, Wandamere and Riverside. I loved to dance. Because we had no car and no way to go anywhere my parents wouldn't let me go on a date, in the summer, unless I took Lula and one of her girl friends. They didn't think it was fair for me to go when she couldn't. How I hated to tell a fellow I could go, but I'd have to take my sister and her friend. Surprisingly, I still had dates. Lula had no fun. She'd just ride to the dance, sit on a bench and talk to her girl friend all night and then ride home. She was totally out of place. I was so nasty to her in an effort to make her too angry to go that I have always been bitterly ashamed. My folks were just trying to be good to her, but they created such bad feelings between us that we really drifted apart. But in spite of no money, my high school years were fun. When we graduated there were about 32 students in our class. About four of them were older fellows (23) who had dropped out of school and then come back. We did all kinds of things to make our graduation special. We wallowed in our grief. We even had a "sob" assembly." I had no money for a graduation dress. Papa loaded up Verna's old buggy with the tools he had used in Salt Lake and some other things. He pushed it to Idaho Falls and sold it at a second hand store. Then he walked home with some money. Mama and I walked to town and selected a beautiful boughten dress.

Thursday, May 23, 2019

How I Am Related to William Shakespeare

Yes the real William Shakespeare.  It is not a direct line, but it is pretty darn close because he shares the same grandparents with my line. 
My father's mother i Melissa Shaw, whose mother is Melissa Ann Atwood whose mother is Mary Sophronia Barber, who is the daughter of William Perry Barber, the son of William Barber, the son of John Barber, who is also the son of a John Barber, the son of John Drake Barber, the son of Ruth Drake, the daughter of John Drake II whose mother is Lettyce Shakespeare the cousin of William Shakespeare.  Henry Shakespeare, father of Lettyce is the brother of John Shakespeare and their parents are Richard Shakespeare and Abigail Webb.  Now I think that is pretty cool.  This is from Family Search.  William Shakespeare was born in Stratford on Avon, Warwickshire, England in 1564.  He passed away in 1616 and is buried in Westminster Abbey.  He was married to Anne Hathaway. 

Friday, December 29, 2017

My Great Uncle Norman Andrew Wardle

This is my great uncle, mostly forgotten.  I read a note from my Grandmother to my father written in 1965,
"We went to Driggs yesterday and got some of this on my Bros. and Norman we got from Aunt Rose and Allie also Delilah.  Norman Andrew Wardle Born in Victor Idaho March 18 1012.  Died at Victor April 21, 1912."
Norman is in family Search.  There is a written record of his death, but no original document.  There is no cause of death given.  He was buried in the Victor Cemetery 23 April 1912 as documented by Find a Grave.  He was blessed 7 April 1912.  There is no photographic record of Norman.

Friday, November 10, 2017

Genealogy Letter from Roy and Agnes Shaw

My father contacted the Shaws seeking genealogy information.  He provided a graph for them to complete.  This is Ray and Agnes Shaw, my Dad's aunt and uncle.
Sept 30, 1965
Jerome, Idaho
Dear Jim and family:
It was real good hearing from you.  It has been a long time since we saw you folks, and would love to get down that way to see you.  It's been a long time since we were in Salt Lake and I'm homesick to see my boy and family who lives there.  We had a letter from your mother too telling about her fall, that poor soul surely has gone through a lot of misery and suffering.  I know in part what a lot of pain she is suffering as I have two bad discs in my back and the sciatic nerve is pinched.  I've worn a brace for two and a half years and have been sleeping on a hospital bed all summer and it is so painful sometimes I can hardly stand it.  These poor old bodies do wear out.  Uncle Ray isn't too good.  He can't hardly do anything anymore.  He goes fishing once in a while and makes it to town about every day for exercise.  He sleeps a lot too.  He's sure thin to what he was.  The information you have on the sheet is O.K. except you spelled my name wrong.  It's Agnes and that's my full name.  This is all personal knowledge.  I guess you know that ray and Florence never went to the temple so there was no temple divorce.  ray say he surely is thankful they never went to the temple and to tell you he's mighty glad he's free from her for evermore.  Of course I had a temple divorce and Ray and I were married in the temple.  I might tell you too that Ray was ordained a high priest on Aug 15th this year and we are real happy about that.  We were up to Howard's funeral.  It was a real lovely funeral too.  My he surely suffered a lot.  We went up and saw him about a month before he died and he was just skin and bones.  All are having beautiful weather since everything is frozen and the big snow storm the middle of Wept.  We are planning on going to Idaho Falls the first part of Oct. so we'll see your mother then.  Hope you can all stay well and happy.
Love Uncle ray and Aunt Agnes.

A few years later, Agnes is front left and Alma Ray Shaw front right.

Saturday, September 23, 2017

Great Grandmother Melissa Ann Atwood Shaw As Told by my Grandmother

History of Melissa Ann Atwood Shaw
As Told by Her Daughter Melissa Ann Shaw Wardle

Story of my mother, Melissa Ann Atwood Shaw, the daughter of Mary S. Barbar and Alonzo T. Atwood.  She was born 23 October 1859 at Harbor Creek, Erie County, Pennsylvania.  Her father was the father of 27 children.  He had two wives, having 13 children by his first wife and 14 by his second.  He was a brick mason by trade.  They lived in Pennsylvania until their son William was born in the year 1861.  On 2 October 1862, they left Pennsylvania with the James F. Brown Company wagon train to go to Utah.  Mother was only 3 years old and having no shoes because her parents were very poor, she had to walk bare footed to Sunday school and also on the way to Utah.  She was baptized there in 1870 by James Gilbert.
The family settled in Salem, Utah.  Mother lived with her parents until she was 12 years old when she went to live wither Uncle Walter and Aunt Adomia Atwood in Murray, Utah.  Uncle Walter owned and operated a brickyard in Murray, and mother helped Aunt Domie, as she was called, cook for the hired help there.  I have heard her tell how she had to work so hard for such a small girl.  She did the washing on a washboard by hand.  She ironed the clothing by using a flat iron that had to be heated on a stove.  For this work, she was paid $2.00 a month.
She lived with Uncle Walt until she married by father Osmond W. Shaw, May 14, 1879.  She had received her endowments in 1875.  She and dad lived at Salem, Utah where he owned and operated a shingle mill.  At Salem their first five children were born, and their oldest child died.  This was in the year 1889.

While she was living with Uncle Walt and Aunt Domie she told me that she taught school for a while.  How long she taught, I do not know nor do I know the age of the children she taught, but I do remember her telling about one of the students bringing an Ouija Board to school one day.  The board had numbers and letters around it.  It was about one and a half feet across and three yards around.  There is a planchette that points to the different letters or numbers to answer any question asked it.  This is one way of telling fortunes.  This day they asked it a question and the table it was on started to move around, jumping up and down.  Everyone was frightened and there was never another Ouija Board brought to school.
             In the spring of 1889 we settled in Teton Valley.  Dad went in first and found a place to settle.  Mother and her children came by train to Market Lake, now Roberts.  Father met them there and they came in a wagon.  I have heard my sister Allie tell how she walked some of the way and she talked about the beautiful flowers they saw along the way.  They settled close to Badger Creek, north of Tetonia.  There wasn’t a house on the place.  They had to live in a tent and the covered wagon.  The deer and antelope would come right up to the door and browse around.
                The first six months mother never saw another white woman.  The Indians were around quite a bit then. 
                They had a faithful old dog.  Mother used it for a watch dog.  One day father was away.  She and the small children were alone when two trappers came to her camp and were very rude to her.  She told them that her husband was coming home any minute and they still weren’t very nice.  So she spoke to the dog and he was ready to tear them apart.  So they got out of there really fast.
                Father then got a place from a man by the name of Nickerson.  There was a two room house on it and two lovely springs where the water was very cold and good to drink.  She [mother] enjoyed her home very much even though it wasn’t very nice.  They had horse blankets hand at the windows and doors for curtains.  There were also fie children born there. 
                Their first Christmas dinner in their new home consisted of deer meat and pies made out of wild currants she had picked and dried.  The pie crust was made of deer fat and it was delicious.  Mother could make the best pies I have ever eaten.  She was a wonderful seamstress.  She made all of her own clothes and also those for the children.  She knit all of their stockings.  I wore long loped hand knit stockings as long as I went to school that mother had knitted. 
                There wasn’t any doctor living in the valley, so when a baby was to be born a midwife was called in to care for mother and child.   When I was born she was very sick.  Neither I nor mother were expected to live.  Father made a bed in the wagon, with a canvas over the top and took us to a doctor in Rexburg.  At that time there wasn’t a hospital there so Father made arrangements for a lady to take us into her home and care for us.  She was sick for a month at her home and six weeks in Rexburg.  It was her faith that saved her life.  She asked the Lord to let her live to raise her family and her prayers were answered.
                They lived in that old two-room house until about 1910, when they moved into a nice new frame house that father built.  Mother buried two children at birth there, one boy and one girl.
                Mother was the first Postmaster in the Teton Basin and held that position for 11 years.  She also carried mail from Hayden to Leigh where she lived and ran the post office.  She had an old black horse named Nig.  She hooked him to a cart and every day, but Sunday, she made that trip about five miles distance. 
                All of her life she was very active in her church.  She served as a visiting teacher for the Relief Society, and also a teacher in the Sunday school.  She was the president of the Relief Society for a long time.  She was a very staunch tithing payer.  She raised chicken, ducks and turkeys, and always milked a large herd of cows.  It was from these that she paid her tithing.  While mother was president of the Relief Society, she had a granary built to hold their wheat as they used to take wheat for dues and other donations.  With the wheat money they were able to run the Relief Society and help the needy in the ward.  It was a large undertaking for a few women, and they were successful.  One year they had it almost full and they were all proud of their accomplishments. 
                In the year 1899 mother gave birth to another son, Earl.  Jan. 25, 1901 John was born.  He lived only long enough to be given a name and blessing before he died.  He was 7 months premature [2 months], tiny with a lot of black hair.  Father made a casket and the Relief Society ladies lined it with white silk.  It was very pretty.
Melissa Ann Atwood Shaw and her children
(back) Alma Ray, Allie Cornelia, earl Weilding, Melissa Ann, James Albert,
(front) Rosa Eliza, Osmond Wilding (husband), Melissa Ann (self) and William Lewis

                About 1916 Dad bought a Buick.  They were very proud of it, but one of the boys always did the driving as Dad never did learn how.  Mother bought a duster and a cap with a beak on it.  She tied a scarf over the cap and tied it under his chi.  She wore this outfit whenever she went in the car.  She always sat in the back seat and held on for dear life.  She gave instructions on driving to whoever was at the wheel, telling them not to go too fast and as she was very frightened.  They would go only ten miles an hour, but she was afraid it would get a scratch on it.  It was a touring car and the wind whistled through it.
                Mother went to Vernal, Utah only once to visit her mother whom she hadn’t seen since they left Salem to come to Idaho.  She stayed about a month and enjoyed herself very much but was happy to get back home.  I stayed at home and cooked for the hay men and kept care of the house.  I was about 15 or 16 years old at the time and had about 12 men besides the family to feed three hot meals a day.  We were all through with the haying when Mother got home.
                Mother was a very heavy woman.  I imagine she weighed about 200 pounds, but her health was never very good after my birth.  Her legs and feet bothered her a lot.  They would swell up and look like they would burst.  Sometimes they looked shiny like glass and had a transparent appearance.  They gave her much pain.  She got running sores from varicose veins and many times put her knees on a chair and pushed it around while she was doing her work.  I used to bathe and rub legs for her which gave her some relief.
                She always fed all the stray men who called on Father.  No man ever called at the Shaw place and went away hungry.  She would say, Melissa, put an a few extra potatoes.  You know Pa will have someone come to eat dinner with us.”  There was a cattle buyer by the name of Charley Christensen, who always came to our place if he was anywhere near at meal time.  I’ll bet I’d be safe in saying that Mother gave him several hundred meals over the years. 
                Although mother had poor health in the latter part of her life, she was always cheerful and helping someone who was less fortunate than herself.  She kept little treats for her grandchildren, some candy put away or cookies or apples that were hard and crisp.  Father had built a cellar out of limestone rock so that it was cool and keep food well.  The apples tasted as though they had just been picked, even month after month in the cellar.  The cellar had double doors to keep out summer’s heat and winter’s cold.
                She never let a grandchild’s birthday pass without a present.  It was usually something that she had made herself or maybe cloth for a new shirt or dress.
Melissa Ann Atwood Shaw

                About the year 1919 Mother took very sick.  She was in the Idaho Falls hospital for a time.  When she was better she came home but she took a change for the worse.  She was too bad to take back to Idaho Fall so Father hired a nurse to come and take care of her.  Father took mother to Omaha, Nebraska to see a doctor about this time.  I don’t remember if it was before or after she was in the Idaho Falls hospital, nor do I remember how long they were gone.  Mother had suffered a long time when her death came on June 20, 1920 about five o’clock in the evening.  She was 61 years old and didn’t have a gray hair in her dark brown hair.  She was laid to rest in the Cache Clawson Cemetery in Teton County.  She was missed by all very much as she was loved most dearly.

Sunday, May 14, 2017

My Dad's Three SIblings Who Passed Away In Their Infancy

 My father's family lost three children before my father was born.  Audrey and Lula where his older siblings.  Then came Little Willie, Myrtle Mary, and Wanda Helen.  Grandma tells their story:
On Nov. 15, 1919 our first boy was born.  He had red hair.  We named him William Hashton after Grandfather Wardle.  We called him Willie.  He was a very sweet boy.  We almost lost him when he was born as he had a hemorrhage.  He bled from eyes, nose, mouth and bowels.  The doctor gave him several blood transfusions.  He took two blood from me.  That checked it.  He lost so much blood that he was so cold, almost like death.  They wrapped him in blankets and put him in the oven to try and keep him warm.  The doctor gave him a sedative to keep him quiet when he wasn’t 24 hours old.  He lived to be two years and four months.  He was sick most of his life.  When he passed away his hair was white.  We had moved to Pocatello and were living there when Willie passed away.  Just before he died we had another little daughter born on Dec. 10, 1921.  She looked like the other girls with long dark hair.  We named her Myrtle Mary.  She was just a little doll, but the Lord saw fit to take her.  We were only permitted to keep her three months.  We had four children.  All of them, Wilford, and I were all sick at the same time with the flu.  There was a bad flu epidemic.  Wilford and three of the children had flu and pneumonia.  Two children were taken.  Willie died March 1 and Myrtle March 4, 1922.  That was terrible.  We were all too sick to leave the house so we had a little service for both of them at home.  It took a long time to get over the loss of my children.
    On March 29, 1923 we had another little girl born.  We named her Wanda Helen.  She also had dark hair and blue eyes.  She was a beautiful child.  She lived to be eleven months old.  We enjoyed her very much.  She and the other girls got whooping cough.  Wanda got pneumonia with it.  She passed away Feb. 10, 1924.  It was a very sad blow to all of us.

Little Willie who was born with red hair; but it went white due to health issues.
I do not have pictures of the two girl; only of William Hashton Wardle.  My father, James Wilford Jr.  was born, 1925 and Phyllis and Verna followed him.  

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Melissa Shaw: Juvenile Instructor


Letter submitted by Melissa Shaw, 9 years old, to the children's section of the Juvenile Instructor. Published Vol. 38, No. 10, May 15, 1903.
Here is something interesting about my Grandmother Shaw Wardle.  This I found on Family Search.  The baby she talks about would have had to have been Earl Weilding Shaw as he is the only sibling younger than Grandma.  He was six years younger.

Monday, August 3, 2015

Death Record: James Wilford Wardle Sr.

"Idaho, Southeast Counties Obituaries, 1864-2007," image 1 of 1; Idaho Falls Regional Family History Center, Idaho Falls.

From this record we learn James Wilford Wardle died Sept. 23, 1972 F;35 a.m.  He was born South Jordan Utah Nov. 2, 1981 to William Haston Wardle who was born in South Jordan and Annie Serena Sorenson born in Little Cottonwood, Utah.  His widow is Melissa Ann Shaw and the family home is 126 So. 1st st. Rigby, Idaho.  He was buried in Mountain view Cemetery, Pocatello, Id and the funeral was Sept. 26, 1972.

Sunday, August 2, 2015

Obituary: Melissa Ann Shaw Wardle

Idaho Souther County Obituaries 1943-2013 #796
This is the obituary for my Grandmother who passed away while I was serving a mission.  
She passed away 12 December 1977.


Sunday, May 24, 2015

James Wilford Wardle Sr and Melissa Anne Shaw Couple and Family Pictures

I have discovered some family pictures on FamilySearch.  These pictures were mostly contributed by my brother Charles, but also elsewhere.  I have also put numerous pictures of my father's family on FamilySearch.
Picture at Jenny's Lake, Doesn't Grandma look like Verna?

Farm House, Rigby

CCC work crew, Grandpa is on left, Vernal third from right, Milton Thompson fourth from right

Grandpa Wardle, James Jr, Verna, Grandma Wardle, Lula, Phyllis


Grandpa, Verna, Grandma, Phyllis, James Jr.


Monday, January 26, 2015

Shaw Pictures: Please identify

Audrey is farthest right
These pictures were not labeled. They were with other pictures taken 1965 and appear to be of a Shaw Reunion.  Any help with identification would be appreciated.  
Rosa Eliza Shaw left, Grandma Melissa Ann Shaw Wardle on right and two of her siblings

Sunday, January 25, 2015

Pictures of Grandma Melissa Anne Shaw Wardle and Children

Could these pictures be of Grandpa's funeral, or shortly after.  The were developed in December 1973, or a full our after Grandpa passed away. No labels provided but all together and clothing the same.
Donna Phyllis and Sandra and David Olsen

Grandma and Denise Olsen

Wardle woman, Phyllis, Lula, Grandma, Audrey, and my mother (daughter-in-law) Ileen

My father Jim and Grandma

Grandma at her home in Rexburg

Phyllis, Lula, Grandma, Ileen, Audrey
Aunt Verna is missing from these.  If anyone knows the occasion please let me know.  Billy

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

An Early Olsen/ Wardle/Wright Picture

James Wilford Wardle Sr, Melissa Shaw Wardle, Mina Geneve Brandli Wright, Ileen Wright Wardle, Donna Phyllis Wardle, Donna Olsen, Sara Wardle, Connie Wardle, Weldon Wardle, Ray Olsen

I do not know the circumstance, but this picture is taken at Grandma Wright's home in Lincoln.  Grandma Wright's husband was still alive when this picture, which is probably from 1956 (before I was born).

Friday, March 14, 2014

Grandma Wardle (Melissa Ann Shaw) Youngest Picture I Have Seen

This is a picture from family search contributed by Leslie Coburn.  It is identified as
back row l-r Alma Ray Shaw, Allie Cornelia Shaw, Earl Weilding Shaw, Melissa Ann Shaw, James Albert Shaw; front l-r Rosa Eliza Shaw, Osmond Wilding Shaw, Melissa Ann Atwood, William Lewis Shaw.

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

I need help

I have a of William Haston's family.  The picture identifies a woman holding a baby as Aunt Hattie.  The closest I come to this is Harriet Rhodehouse, the wife of Charles.  Charles and William were close in age so this is a possibility.  I was wondering if anyone new of anyone who could be closer?  I checked the sisters of Annie and no one has a name similar to this.  Harriet had a baby who would have been two months, named Harriet Wardle.
b. Wilford, Audrey in arms, Melissa, Mary, Anne (mother) Aunt Hattie, baby
f. Birdie, Delilah, Orrin, William (father)

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Wardles to Celebrate 50th Wedding Date

Wardles To Celebrate 50th Wedding Date
Rigby, March 22   Mr. and Mrs. J Wilford Wardle will celebrate their golden wedding anniversary on March 28 at their home 126 S. 1st West in Rigby.  Friends and relatives are invited to attend between the hours of 1 and 4 p.m.  They request no gifts.
The couple was married in the Salt Lake L.D.S. Temple April 8, 1914.  Mrs. Wardle is the former Melissa Shaw, a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Osmond W. Shaw early pioneers of the Teton Basin Valley.  She was born Sept. 10, 1893.
Mr. Wardle is the son of Mr. and Mrs. William Wardle and was born at South Jordan, Utah Nov. 2, 1891.
At the time f their marriage he was employed as a mail carrier hauling the mail from Victor to Jackson in  buggy.  He was later employed as a freighter in the same area using heavy wagons to haul freight.  He has also been a farmer, live-stock owner and operator and was known for his carpenter work.
Mrs. Wardle is well known for her handwork and for her drapery making.  They have both been active in church work.  She has taught Sunday School and Primary for many years and has served as secretary in several organizations.  Active in Daughters of Utah Pioneers whe has been the commander of the Dorian Camp in Rigby.
He has worked in the MIA in Sunday School and was once in the superintendency.
They have made their home at Victor and in this area.  They are parents of eight children, five of whom are living.  They include Mrs. Ellis (Audrey) Chase, Pocatello; Mrs. Jack (Lula) Beesley Rigby; James Wilford Jr., Logan, Utah; Mrs. James (Phyllis) Olson, Menan; and Mrs. Bill (Verna) Green, Salt Lake City, Utah.  They also have 21 grandchildren.

These are my grandparents.  I assume this is from the Rigby paper, but may be Idaho Falls.